Energy robbers Energy robbers Thoughts from within: Today, I consciously agreed to meet someone. But deep down, I didn’t feel like going. Now I’m back home and feel completely drained. Why is that? You said in your video: „It’s up to us.“ „We don’t have to waste our energy on people who aren’t open to […]
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Why do I feel uncomfortable around people? Why do I feel uncomfortable around people? People’s thoughts: „I am the most myself when I’m alone. Then I simply am. But why doesn’t this work when I’m around people, in everyday life? I don’t feel whole there, I end up playing a role – like the employee, […]
Dealing with Triggering People Dealing with Triggering People People’s Thoughts: „I still find it difficult to stay at peace when I am triggered by someone. The feeling of being hurt sets in faster than the rational mind, which tells you: You can stay in peace… (…) … The only thing that helps is practice.“ People […]
How to make parents happy again? How to Make Parents Happy Again? People’s Thoughts: „Why was it so important for me to always see my parents happy?“ By nature, humans are social beings. From childhood, the love and care of our parents allow us to develop deep bonds with the people around us. Society […]
How do I fit in? How do I fit in? Underlying thoughts of people: “Do I have to act in a certain way, or hide parts of myself from others? How do I manage to reconcile what I know with people in everyday life? …( ) … I take part in the small talks about […]
How do I deal with feelings of guilt? How do I deal with feelings of guilt? Underlying thoughts of people: “How can I best deal with blame (from people close to me)? Do I take on the guilt to create peace, even if I feel it is unfair inside – or do I “defend” myself […]
Why do I project my issues onto others? Why do I project my issues onto others? Underlying thoughts of people: “I’m trying to create structure. My roommate is the opposite. I have certain expectations of her that are probably excessive. I project my own issues onto her. I don’t know what to do with my […]
The search for love The search for love Underlying thoughts of people: “Aha… Well everything is vague… Everything is in me and not in the other? What if the other person denies their feelings? It’s not that easy with unconditionality.” Be sure that everything you say and ask with these sentences takes place in […]
Healing through triggering Healing through triggering Underlying thoughts of people: “Yes, I can imagine that you trigger people…” Everything that triggers you, that you absorb through your senses (hearing, seeing, tasting, other people’s statements) and that causes deep painful reactions in your thoughts and feelings, that you vehemently deny, are topics that you have […]
Personal attacks from colleagues Personal attacks from colleagues Underlying thoughts of people: „I’m actually a child of nature… ( ) … and now I’m sitting in the city and thinking, what a film… ( ) … I have the feeling that the more I work on it, the more attacks I get…“ Man, you […]