Energy robbers Energy robbers Thoughts from within: Today, I consciously agreed to meet someone. But deep down, I didn’t feel like going. Now I’m back home and feel completely drained. Why is that? You said in your video: „It’s up to us.“ „We don’t have to waste our energy on people who aren’t open to […]
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Why do I feel uncomfortable around people? Why do I feel uncomfortable around people? People’s thoughts: „I am the most myself when I’m alone. Then I simply am. But why doesn’t this work when I’m around people, in everyday life? I don’t feel whole there, I end up playing a role – like the employee, […]
Dealing with Triggering People Dealing with Triggering People People’s Thoughts: „I still find it difficult to stay at peace when I am triggered by someone. The feeling of being hurt sets in faster than the rational mind, which tells you: You can stay in peace… (…) … The only thing that helps is practice.“ People […]
How to make parents happy again? How to Make Parents Happy Again? People’s Thoughts: „Why was it so important for me to always see my parents happy?“ By nature, humans are social beings. From childhood, the love and care of our parents allow us to develop deep bonds with the people around us. Society […]
How do I fit in? How do I fit in? Underlying thoughts of people: “Do I have to act in a certain way, or hide parts of myself from others? How do I manage to reconcile what I know with people in everyday life? …( ) … I take part in the small talks about […]
How do I deal with feelings of guilt? How do I deal with feelings of guilt? Underlying thoughts of people: “How can I best deal with blame (from people close to me)? Do I take on the guilt to create peace, even if I feel it is unfair inside – or do I “defend” myself […]
Why do I project my issues onto others? Why do I project my issues onto others? Underlying thoughts of people: “I’m trying to create structure. My roommate is the opposite. I have certain expectations of her that are probably excessive. I project my own issues onto her. I don’t know what to do with my […]
The search for love The search for love Underlying thoughts of people: “Aha… Well everything is vague… Everything is in me and not in the other? What if the other person denies their feelings? It’s not that easy with unconditionality.” Be sure that everything you say and ask with these sentences takes place in […]
Healing through triggering Healing through triggering Underlying thoughts of people: “Yes, I can imagine that you trigger people…” Everything that triggers you, that you absorb through your senses (hearing, seeing, tasting, other people’s statements) and that causes deep painful reactions in your thoughts and feelings, that you vehemently deny, are topics that you have […]
Personal attacks from colleagues Personal attacks from colleagues Underlying thoughts of people: „I’m actually a child of nature… ( ) … and now I’m sitting in the city and thinking, what a film… ( ) … I have the feeling that the more I work on it, the more attacks I get…“ Man, you […]
Unconditional love Unconditional love Underlying thoughts: “So (being) alone…not expecting love from her?” Hope makes you waste energy worrying about whether or not something is happening in your life. You are busy hoping rather than fully accepting a situation and letting it go, or reconciling the situation for yourself and for others through your […]
Toxic people Toxic people Underlying thoughts: “How do I stay with myself, in my peace, when I have mostly unconscious people around me at work?” Unconscious people, people in their own dissatisfaction, no matter where you find them, sometimes don’t want to wake up. They are stubborn, neither self-reflective nor flexible in their way […]
Toxic patients and professions Toxic patients and jobs Underlying thoughts: “Can you make a video about being a masseuse? When you have to massage people all day and always talk. And the patients have to be treated one after the other without a break, like on an assembly line, and have to stand. How can […]
Create spatial separation Underlying thoughts: “I have a question, do you have a tip if I can’t create a spatial separation because the other person is unconscious, toxic, but on the other hand is a reliable friend that I have known all my life? On the one hand toxic, on the other hand we […]
Silence for the sake of peace Silence for the sake of peace Underlying thoughts: „Sometimes you need to say how you are feeling … !“ If you remain silent about an internal topic instead of clearly saying what you think, you are suppressing the same topic again. You suppress your own energies, which continues […]