Why do I project my issues onto others? Why do I project my issues onto others? Underlying thoughts of people: “I’m trying to create structure. My roommate is the opposite. I have certain expectations of her that are probably excessive. I project my own issues onto her. I don’t know what to do with my […]
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Developing rituals Developing rituals Underlying thoughts of people: “Have you developed any specific rituals for yourself?” Healing means being aware of our thoughts, feelings and actions. We reflect on what still has a place in our live and what doesn’t. We think and act accordingly and create a life according to our ideas – […]
Overcome fear Underlying thoughts of people: “Can you stand it if you go into fear?” Fear is an instinct designed to keep us away from situations so as not to endanger our lives. But we let this instinct control us by being afraid and reluctant to meet new people, travel alone, or go […]
Accepting change Accepting change Underlying thoughts of people: “My absolute trigger is: that Germany has changed so much that I can hardly stand it anymore…” Make it clear to yourself that you are letting the thought of change with regard to Germany and the fact that you do not accept change determine your peace. You […]
What is my fulfillment? What is my fulfillment? Underlying thoughts of people: “I currently have no job, few social contacts, a lot of emptiness and boredom. It makes me depressed and almost all in my head. Don’t endure this idleness and silence. I’m missing a fulfilling task.” Energy follows your attention. If you continue […]
Allow feelings Allow feelings Underlying thoughts of people: „… what is it like when there is loneliness and sadness at the same time… when I do sports, isn’t it like running away from the feeling… shouldn’t I allow it… for this feeling to leave the body?“ The feelings of loneliness and sadness are triggered […]
How do I get into change? How do I get into change? Underlying thoughts: “And what if you are unhappy in the here and now, with your life and the circumstances? When you feel sadness, emptiness, loneliness in the here and now? If you want to change certain circumstances (and that is also possible) and […]
Why do I feel no anger? Why do I feel no anger? Underlying thoughts of people: “Why can it be that I don’t feel anger? Is that a good thing or a bad thing?… ()… Feelings (of others) need to come out clearly, but how can I deal with them better?“ If you are […]
Behavior when afraid Behavior when afraid Underlying thoughts of people: “I don’t understand why I’m scared? Why is the fear there? I’m trying to understand, but it just doesn’t click…“ If you feel feelings of fear, or feelings of anger, insecurity, shame, and so on… and you try to understand why that is, then […]
Setting boundaries Setting boundaries Underlying thoughts of people: “How to differentiate yourself? Inner peace comes from now awareness… it’s not that easy.“ Inner peace comes from now awareness – inner peace is always there – at the time “now”. But if you think that it is not so easy to distance yourself from other […]